Does a military captain have to have someone to accept his beneficiary before he can get out the army

Without much detail, this sounds like "I am in the Army and looking for a wife, and I love you very much scam'. These are African males looking to get access to your bank account, or have you send them money as a short term loan for any number of made up excuses. I only noticed your 2018 question today, so I hope you didn't fall for it. Quora.com is full of similar stories.

I knew a career major in the Gurkha Regiment who remained single until the day he died. He worked for M.O.D. and Ford afterwards.